Mobile Monitoring Consultation Needed

I want professional, vendor-neutral guidance on how to set up secure, remote monitoring for a family member’s smartphone. My primary aim is to be able to review their day-to-day activity—calls, messages, app usage, location history, and web visits—so I can step in quickly if something unsafe appears.

I need someone who can:
• Evaluate both iOS and Android options (native settings, parental-control suites, security apps, cloud dashboards).
• Recommend reliable, legal tools that let me view activity in real time or near real time.
• Explain any limitations—what data each platform allows, what requires physical access, and the level of consent needed in my country.
• Walk me through setup: installation, configuration, account linking, alert creation, and remote access from a laptop or another phone.
• Provide a concise, written action plan I can reference later, including links to official documentation for each suggested app or service.

A short live call or screen-share to answer follow-up questions will complete the engagement. By the end, I should have a clear, step-by-step path to monitor the device ethically, keep them safe from scams or risky contacts, and receive immediate alerts whenever suspicious activity occurs.